Relationships are hard. Leaving them is worse.
I was dating this woman. We met at a weird place in my life. I had just left my ex, and was doing the “I’m going to whore around …

Imagine my surprise when, at 17, I realized my only one true need was to be with another woman. You’d think this amounted to a wonderful revelation, but in reality it was the most important …

My girlfriend Amanda and I sit down for a video together for the first time and talk about how we met, what we’re up to now, and what’s to come in the future.

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*Note: I just broke up with my girlfriend, but this post has NOTHING to do with us. It’s been sitting on my desktop for over six months, ever since a friend of mine explained to …

My mother. What can be said about my mother?
She is a lovely woman who I care very much about. Really, I do. Promise. She is the epitome of Jewish mother, gleefully listing her favorite hobbies as …

Anais Nin said, “Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish it’s source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it …

When you’re with someone long enough, there comes a time when the subject of money comes up. And not just, “How much do you make? … Oh, that’s nice.” No, it’s more about how the …

In the world of dating, relationships come and go. Until you find that one person with whom you’re meant to be for the rest of your life, you’re going to get into relationships that will …

I feel like everyone says this, but I think I always knew I was a lesbian.
I remember in second grade having these irrational crushes on my babysitters, coaches, friends … whomever. I never acted on …

I knew at a very young age, probably around the time I was 5, that there was something different about me.  I didn’t know I was gay, I just knew I liked girls.  I remember …

No, genius, I’m not going to tell you how to cheat, although that could make for an altogether controversial (albeit interesting) post … no. I’m resisting that temptation. This time. :)
In a relationship, or even in the …

What are the rules for dating? What are the rules for dating in the lesbian community? “The Chart,” featured in The L Word, pretty much defines what happens amongst us girls.  Even if you’ve slept …

I have to wonder, was 2009 a good year for anyone??  I’ve had some disastrous years but this one, by far, takes the cake. Aside from the dwindling economic crisis, my personal life faced a …