We lesbians are NOTORIOUS for getting attached immediately.  As the infamous saying goes, “first date sex, second date U-Haul.”  Unfortunately there is a whole grey area for stage-5 Clingers,  a term that’s used best to describe someone who gets …

Billy Crystal once said that men and women can’t be friends, because the sex part always gets in the way. That in the end men always want to have sex with women, even if the …

When I moved to England, I was a bit at a loss as to how to find any other lesbians. It isn’t like I need to be surrounded by the gays all the time, …

Imagine my surprise when, at 17, I realized my only one true need was to be with another woman. You’d think this amounted to a wonderful revelation, but in reality it was the most important …

How many of us have contemplated it? How many of us have participated in it?  What’s the fascination with it?  In a way, is it like having your cake and eating it too, a form of …

Friday night my girlfriend and I were relaxing with some friends I affectionately refer to as “The L-Team” and the topic of sex inevitably came up. I have come to realize we are always talking …

On the eve of Ginger’s 30th birthday, a 22-year-old mutual acquaintance of ours insinuated that Ginger would now be considered a cougar.
To some, that could actually be considered a compliment. For awhile Ginger actually announced to …

So you wanna start (or extend) your dating, and you’ve decided to join an online dating site. Online dating has come a long way, and these days is actually perceived as a perfectly reasonable method …

“Loving you was easy
Playin’ by the rules
But you said love tastes so much better
When it’s cruel.
To you everything was just a game
And oh yeah you played me good
But I want you, I want you, I …

You’ve done it. You’ve made contact, you’ve flirted and shown your charm, and you’ve reached that first finish line: getting a date with the girl of your choice.
But now the butterflies are mixing with the …

My first real girl crush. I was in college at the time, second semester Sophomore year to be exact. I was 20. I had had crushes on girls before, but this was different. This woman …

It’s in the movies; it’s in the books. It’s a daydream held by most, but a dream that will likely never be realized.
It’s the mystery of love at first sight.  From the time of the …

I’m so glad Salon.com exists. I finally have a forum vast enough to express my WTF-ness with the outre Japanese vagstrosity called The Rabbit. Up until about a year and a half ago, …

My first story falls more into the humorous category; I’ll leave Ginger to the cringe-worthy ones, since she does seem to have some doozies.
I wasn’t even out of the closet yet. I hadn’t a clue …