Articles in Relationships
We lesbians are NOTORIOUS for getting attached immediately. As the infamous saying goes, “first date sex, second date U-Haul.” Unfortunately there is a whole grey area for stage-5 Clingers, a term that’s used best to describe someone who gets …
Relationships are hard. Leaving them is worse.
I was dating this woman. We met at a weird place in my life. I had just left my ex, and was doing the “I’m going to whore around …
What does it mean when your life seems to resemble a Taylor Swift song?
My ex-girlfriend and I broke up almost exactly a year ago. I miss her still, but not in the way I did …
I took the liberty today of sending a text to a completely random selection of individuals from my address book that read: “What’s the best way to get over a break up?” Some of the …
How many of us have contemplated it? How many of us have participated in it? What’s the fascination with it? In a way, is it like having your cake and eating it too, a form of …
Someone once told me that, for every year you’re in a relationship, that’s how many months it will take for you to get over them. It seemed to be the complete opposite for me. A five-year relationship ended …
*Note: I just broke up with my girlfriend, but this post has NOTHING to do with us. It’s been sitting on my desktop for over six months, ever since a friend of mine explained to …
Anais Nin said, “Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish it’s source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it …
When you’re with someone long enough, there comes a time when the subject of money comes up. And not just, “How much do you make? … Oh, that’s nice.” No, it’s more about how the …
In the world of dating, relationships come and go. Until you find that one person with whom you’re meant to be for the rest of your life, you’re going to get into relationships that will …
No, genius, I’m not going to tell you how to cheat, although that could make for an altogether controversial (albeit interesting) post … no. I’m resisting that temptation. This time. :)
In a relationship, or even in the …
What are the rules for dating? What are the rules for dating in the lesbian community? “The Chart,” featured in The L Word, pretty much defines what happens amongst us girls. Even if you’ve slept …







