Articles in Love and Sex
We lesbians are NOTORIOUS for getting attached immediately. As the infamous saying goes, “first date sex, second date U-Haul.” Unfortunately there is a whole grey area for stage-5 Clingers, a term that’s used best to describe someone who gets …
Billy Crystal once said that men and women can’t be friends, because the sex part always gets in the way. That in the end men always want to have sex with women, even if the …
Relationships are hard. Leaving them is worse.
I was dating this woman. We met at a weird place in my life. I had just left my ex, and was doing the “I’m going to whore around …
When I moved to England, I was a bit at a loss as to how to find any other lesbians. It isn’t like I need to be surrounded by the gays all the time, …
I fell hard for a girl over the summer of 2008. I had dated lots of guys through high school and college, but none of it fit me. I got tired and annoyed with …
What does it mean when your life seems to resemble a Taylor Swift song?
My ex-girlfriend and I broke up almost exactly a year ago. I miss her still, but not in the way I did …
Imagine my surprise when, at 17, I realized my only one true need was to be with another woman. You’d think this amounted to a wonderful revelation, but in reality it was the most important …
Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about what it’s like to be a teenager and, even more, what it’s like to be a teenager with seemingly absent parents. This is mostly because I spend …
I took the liberty today of sending a text to a completely random selection of individuals from my address book that read: “What’s the best way to get over a break up?” Some of the …
How many of us have contemplated it? How many of us have participated in it? What’s the fascination with it? In a way, is it like having your cake and eating it too, a form of …
Someone once told me that, for every year you’re in a relationship, that’s how many months it will take for you to get over them. It seemed to be the complete opposite for me. A five-year relationship ended …
*Note: I just broke up with my girlfriend, but this post has NOTHING to do with us. It’s been sitting on my desktop for over six months, ever since a friend of mine explained to …
I am butch.
Let’s just get that out of the way. I have my feminine attributes; but I am, for all the world to see, as gay as a glitter-farting unicorn.
That said, I have never really …
Anais Nin said, “Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish it’s source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it …
