I knew at a very young age, probably around the time I was 5, that there was something different about me.  I didn’t know I was gay, I just knew I liked girls.  I remember …

I was sixteen years old when I first came out to my parents. My friend Antonio and I used to say that we were going to Great Adventure, but really we were going to my …

No, genius, I’m not going to tell you how to cheat, although that could make for an altogether controversial (albeit interesting) post … no. I’m resisting that temptation. This time. :)
In a relationship, or even in the …

A friend of mine who lives in Florida mentioned to me this morning the awesome opportunity available to all of those who are planning to attend Aquagirl in South Beach this year.

For those who don’t …

This is an old list, and I remember seeing it a few years back, but it still cracks me up. Gotta love that tongue-in-cheek kind of humor.
The Top Ten Reasons Gay Marriage Will Ruin Society

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2008 marked my first Jersey Pride being single. I had contemplated not going at all for fear of running into my current ex who had recently broken things off with me a few weeks before. …

For those of you who have not yet experienced the wonder and debauchery of Jersey Pride, held every June in that big ol’ patch of grass in the shadow of the Berkeley Ocean Front Hotel, …

Part 1. Tilly Eats Tourists
It was well past last call. I was well past possessing the ability to recite my ABC’s in either direction, walk a straight line, or touch my nose with any body part. …

I was born to be an asshole. I’ve been walking around this planet for twenty six years and this statement could be my ultimate truth. Stamp it on my tombstone. I never did well in …

I’m just going to ramble on about the bullshit day I had.  It’s 12:36am I can’t sleep and I just need to bitch and complain for about 20 minutes so I feel I did something …

It’s in the movies; it’s in the books. It’s a daydream held by most, but a dream that will likely never be realized.
It’s the mystery of love at first sight.  From the time of the …

What are the rules for dating? What are the rules for dating in the lesbian community? “The Chart,” featured in The L Word, pretty much defines what happens amongst us girls.  Even if you’ve slept …

Ok, so at the age of 26 years old, soon to be 27, I’m ENTIRELY new to the lesbian scene. I’ve finally broken down to discover the “me” that I’ve completely disregarded my …

Ever since I could remember, Chuck could fix anything; Whether it was a hard drive, or a 4-wheel-drive. My dad is a big plate of mad scientist sprinkled with architect and a hint of Dadaism. …